alright. let me summarise the funeral.
if not wrong, on friday, my mom told me that my grand uncle passed away. but is not confirm at that time, cos my mom say is just a rumous ppl was saying. but who knws, my grandma called me told me that my granduncle died. i was like speechless. i dono how to react too. heard alot of crying at the background. somehow felt abit sad.
1st day of funeral
i reach the funeral in the late morning at around 11 plus am. cos my dad says we are the heng family, so we must send my granduncle body to the cofin. went i reach there, i see my grand aunt cried till so badly. make me cried too. i didnt knw wad to do. i console her, but she still keep on crying. we kneel down and send him off and we change out shirt off to a white shirt. with the "taupok" [something which we pin on on our shirt sleeve.] on our sleeve. so yahs. stay awhile till 2 plus, and home i go. then at night, i went down again with my cousin. sit down there and help to fold the "jin zi". midnight, my love came and "bai bai"[pray] then, home.
2nd day of funeral
do the same things again. did nth much. but something bad happen. my grand aunt had a bad fall. after the fall, she fainted. if i not wrong. but after awhile, she woke up. after that, her head bleed and there is a big bum there too. i was so afraid till headache. after that, i wait for my mom to come, and home sweet home.
3rd day of funeral
went down again. as my family member have to pray for him. so we sit down there and take care their belonging. so yahs. pray till at night going 11, then they stop lerhs. then we sit down there serve customers and chit chat. don nth much too. then i see my grand aunt face was like so sad. i dono wad to say too. ]: then went up to my grandpa hse for awhile, cos brenda said she wad tired. and i follow her [: then she was talking to ahem, and i went to disturb her. after that, went home clear my dog with brenda, as she wanna charge her phone. then we went for supper. back to funeral there. till 1 plus, my sis said she wanna go grandpa hse rest awhile. so we followed her up, and then they fall asleep, and i take care of my small cousin. till 2 plus 3, i went home alone.
last day of funeral
woke up early in the morning to get prepare. bath and everything, then we went down. then there is a chinese band to play some song. after that, the funeral band came and play. then i saw my grandaunt cried till so badly. it so sad. then after that, there a 10 mins break b4 we went off. both of my grandaunt cried till so badly. ]: alot of ppl cried too. ]: then after that i put on my white sock, and off we go. my grandaunt and my dad and some of my granduncle push the car back, and we follow behind. we walk and walk. after awhile, up to the bus, and off we go to the mandai lerhs. reach there, pray and done everything. and is time to burn my granduncle body. we went to the viewing hall to wait. and saw my granduncle cofin lerhs. my grandaunts break down and cried. swoly slowly, the cofin went in. everyone cried. it so sad. the smallest grandaunt was like shouting "ah hia arhs, ah hia"[brother arhs brother]. ]: CRIED! haish. then went home lerhs. ]:
rest in peace, my beloved granduncle
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